{"id":1245,"date":"2021-12-13T17:21:48","date_gmt":"2021-12-13T23:21:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/?p=1245"},"modified":"2021-12-13T17:21:49","modified_gmt":"2021-12-13T23:21:49","slug":"hes-not-the-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/?p=1245","title":{"rendered":"He&#8217;s Not the Man"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u201cHe\u2019s\nnot the man I married.\u201d&nbsp; Lori Beth would\noften express to friends and relatives that much had changed in me since the\nexperience of the brain injury.&nbsp; The\ninjury itself had healed some time back, at least as much as it was going to,\nbut I had retained some behaviors and values that were brought about by going\nthrough the experience of the injury and healing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One\nevening we were sharing with one another when the topic came up.\n\n\u201cYou know, Lori, you\u2019re\nright.&nbsp; I\u2019m not the man you married.&nbsp; The man you married died that day out on the\npavement but you weren\u2019t ready.&nbsp; I was\nsent to fill in what was lacking in you to be prepared for the departure.&nbsp; I was given his body, his mind, and some of\nhis memories.&nbsp; I don\u2019t fully know what I\nwas sent to do but it was something that you deeply needed.&nbsp; When I do whatever it was that you required\nmy work here is done.&nbsp; My job is over.&nbsp; My reason to be here will have been\ncompleted.&nbsp; With that in mind I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll\nagree that it will be a better thing if you get up and get your own glass of\nwater tonight.\u201d &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cHe\u2019s not the man I married.\u201d&nbsp; Lori Beth would often express to friends and relatives that much had changed in me since the experience of the brain injury.&nbsp; The injury itself had healed some time back, at least as much <span class=\"excerpt-dots\">&hellip;<\/span> <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/?p=1245\"><span class=\"more-msg\">Continue reading &rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-musings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1245"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1245\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1246,"href":"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1245\/revisions\/1246"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}