{"id":809,"date":"2017-02-07T20:54:44","date_gmt":"2017-02-08T02:54:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/?p=809"},"modified":"2017-02-13T10:14:38","modified_gmt":"2017-02-13T16:14:38","slug":"just-thinking-by-bruce-wood-ddt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/willowinthewind.net\/?p=809","title":{"rendered":"Just Thinking\u2026                by Bruce Wood (DDT)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A somewhat delayed departure from Winslow, due mostly to the cool temps, but partially due to the protracted conversation I\u2019d had with the motel owner. I don\u2019t regret either reason! I\u2019d been a bit concerned about the well below freezing temps the night before and the effect those might have had on the day-time run-off water flows of melted snow across the road up top over the pass\u2026 Would there be ice this time across?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d also gotten a glimpse of Winslow never \u2018seen\u2019 before on any of my previous visits. What I\u2019d thought to be just a dusty, boring wide spot along the old Route 66 in a not particularly scenic area of the high desert had turned out to be a fascinating place to explore and contemplate.<\/p>\n<p>Probably due to my own mental state, but more likely I was just able to get to know some locals and hear what they had to tell me. Whatever the reason, I\u2019m mighty glad to have had the chance to \u2018see\u2019 what I had previously missed. Thanks again, Napper!<\/p>\n<p>The long straight ride to the accent to the pass gave me time to reflect\u2026 WOW! What an adventure this trek is turning out to be! A week or so before I had actually made the call to abandon this amazing journey and return to Florida.<\/p>\n<p>I would have missed so much had I done so, but I had made the call based upon how I had felt at the moment\u2026 not on faith in how things tend to unfold out on the road\u2026 Attitude is everything, or at least it\u2019s a major component! I will forever think of Winslow differently from now on\u2026 thanks to that unplanned visit on a ride that was almost aborted before the opportunity even arose\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, I encountered no ice on the ride to retrace my route back to the cut-off to Camp Verde and Cottonwood. I did leave a wee bit more yellow snow in my wake, though\u2026 Uneventful, but most enjoyable ride just banking the many curves, feeling the temperature change with changes in elevation, devouring the incredible scenery\u2026 extending the grove! Another important discovery\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I stopped for a late brunch, then continued on through Prescott. I\u2019d thought I might land there for the evening, but even though it has some qualities, it just isn\u2019t the sort of place that grabs me\u2026 Am I too finicky? Anyway, nothing caught my eye, so we just rode on thinking something would turn up further down the road\u2026 It didn\u2019t\u2026 One or two motels were spotted out in the boondocks, but\u2026 not the sort of places I would be interested in\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Maybe if we could make it to Quartzite we\u2019d find something\u2026 Again, disappointment\u2026 I then decided to just boogie on to Blythe, CA. Since that last stretch of road would be on the Interstate, it didn\u2019t matter that it was getting late and it could be after dark before we arrived\u2026 We made it just at sundown\u2026<\/p>\n<p>The trusty Gerbings had been turned off by the time we\u2019d stopped for brunch\u2026 removed and packed somewhere southwest of Prescott. Yep, it was definitely warming up down in the low country\u2026 Lots and lots of RVs thereabouts! Must be some sort of gathering beyond the usual migration of snowbirds\u2026 Whatever, it sort of surprised me.<\/p>\n<p>I stopped along the route before Quartzite for something to drink and to rest my nagging posterior.\u00a0 I was just standing outside in the shade when a nicely accessorized Black &amp; Silver \u201899 Valkyrie Standard pulled in\u2026 it did have a familiar look to it!!! I don\u2019t think he was actually going to stop, but when I whistled, he looked around then did a loop back around to where I was\u2026 I pointed to ALI, and he got a big ol\u2019 grin on his face!<\/p>\n<p>We chatted for a while, and he revealed that he hasn\u2019t had his very long nor had he done any major trips on it\u2026 He also was not familiar with the VRCC, but he made it clear he was not interested in organizations or group activity beyond his own circle of friends\u2026<\/p>\n<p>He lives in Parker, AZ, and is semi-retired\u2026 Apparently one of those for whom the time had come to stop working, but he just couldn\u2019t give it up entirely\u2026 A surprisingly large number of folks like that, it seems to me\u2026 Oh well, I just know I ain\u2019t one of them!<\/p>\n<p>Back on the road and time for more contemplation\u2026 Why is it some of us eagerly embrace retirement and still can\u2019t find enough time for all we want to do, while others try it and are bored out of their skulls? Many times, I\u2019ve met guys who\u2019ve retired, some even early, only to find they needed to return to work to maintain the luster of life\u2026 A couple of thoughts came to mind\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Early in my career I was working with an older gent who was approaching the mandatory retirement age then in place at our company. He seemed really excited about the coming end to the grind, and he had a broad smile on his face and excitement in his voice anytime someone asked him about it\u2026 right up until a couple of months before his departure date\u2026<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019d lost that excitement and seemingly joyous anticipation somewhere in the final stage\u2026 I thought at the time it was because he had given little to no thought about what he would be doing, and the thought of nothing had sunken in and frightened him&#8230; He\u2019d just assumed it would be bliss and pleasure, and things would take care of themselves. Whether or not I was correct, I took from that a lesson to think about that major shift in life that hopefully was in my own future.<\/p>\n<p>Over the ensuing decades, I observed similar situations as other more senior colleagues went through the same process. I knew at a tender age that I wanted to be able to retire early, should that be my choice. As my ex-wife said, \u201cWe don\u2019t have to retire early, but we should be ready in case we do want to\u2026 We should prepare to have that option.\u201d We set about doing what we could to get ready!<\/p>\n<p>In time, it occurred to me that proper preparation included much more than simply squirreling away enough funds to support such a decision would be needed\u2026 I needed to prepare myself mentally, as well. I\u2019d learned already that \u2018going to something\u2019 is always preferable to \u2018going from something\u2019\u2026 Simply leaving work was not enough\u2026 I needed a carrot in front of me, too.<\/p>\n<p>I thought of all the possible activities I could pursue\u2026 Volunteer work for a charity or Chamber of Commerce, for example. Neither of those had huge appeal, however, as they didn\u2019t seem to offer much fulfillment beyond \u2018busy-work\u2019 activity\u2026<\/p>\n<p>A serious consideration was to return to college for personal enrichment. I\u2019d always been interested in history, but I\u2019d never pursued it seriously because practicality had required the taking of other courses to further my career in business. Now I could study for myself, for personal enjoyment\u2026 perhaps grow as a person in new and far deeper ways. Philosophy was also another area of interest.<\/p>\n<p>I even visited several campuses and spoke with admissions folks about doing precisely that. In the end, I didn\u2019t really want to make the financial commitment, but the time commitment was the most unappealing aspect to this prospective scholar, who was still uncertain about how to occupy his time.<\/p>\n<p>Unplanned events actually determined what I would end up doing\u2026 The meat of this line of thought, however, is that by being mentally prepared to find other outlets for energy and effort besides employment, I was prepared for \u2018retirement\u2019\u2026 the cessation of one\u2019s career\u2026 unlike so many I have observed\u2026 I owe a debt to all those who preceded me for the lessons they provided. And, I also owe a huge debt to my ex for her understanding and participation in all the preparation.<\/p>\n<p>We cruised into Blythe and got a room\u2026 Now it was time for some map work and route selection\u2026 Not to \u2018plan\u2019, per se, but to find a broad outline for the next couple of day\u2019s riding\u2026 In other words, I was planning, but I just didn\u2019t want to admit it!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A somewhat delayed departure from Winslow, due mostly to the cool temps, but partially due to the protracted conversation I\u2019d had with the motel owner. I don\u2019t regret either reason! 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